Monday, November 23, 2009

Movie Review

 BLIND SIDE

I am not "into" football.  I was a little aprehensive when Jeff and I decided to see this one.  Hands down this is a thumbs up!  One of the very best movies I have ever seen!  I love movies based on true stories.  It was refreshing to see a movie about someone doing the right thing because it felt good to do the right thing!  I wish that we all took an interest in others the way this "Mama" did.  The people we see who are wandering with no real direction, and no one to care, need a good person to care.  I know we need to be careful, but there is alot we can do. . . . . I should speak for myself. . . . There is alot I can do to lift someone else.  I may not be able to go out and adopt a "Michael Oher", but there is so much that I can do.  It's time to "do"!

Saturday, November 21, 2009

Too Beautiful This Year!!!

 O world, I cannot hold thee close enough!
Thy winds,thy wide grey skies!
Thy mists, that roll and rise!
Thy woods, this autumn day, that ache and sag
And all but cry with color!
World, World, I cannot get thee close enough!
Long have I known a glory in it all,
But never knew I this:
Here such a passion is as stretcheth me apart,
Lord, I do fear
Thou'st made the world too beautiful this year.
                                                                     Edna St. Vincent Millay


Jeff and I took a drive in October to Greer to see the fall leaves.  It was a beautiful day!  We missed the peak by a little less than a week, but it was still beautiful.  It is nothing like what we have seen in the North East, but for our little "neck of the woods", it was spectacular and we only had to drive 40 minutes to see it!

Other beauties for the eye to behold this year:


Little Ellery peeking at me when I was working in the office.
I looked up and there was this half-lit face smiling back at me.
She is a joy!

Addie, Callie and Walker.  What fun to be there and see their faces when he was brought home! 
That was more fun than Christmas!


Happiness depends, as Nature shows,
Less on exterior things than most suppose!
                                                                            William Cowper

Wednesday, November 18, 2009

"What Did You Do For Someone Today?"

"I have wept in the night
For the shortness of sight
That to somebody's need
I was blind.
But I never have yet
Felt a tinge of regret
For being a little too kind!"
                                          anon.
My thoughts today are pondering the talk President Thomas S. Monson gave at the October General Conference for The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter day Saints.  http://www.lds.org/conference/talk/display/0,5232,23-1-1117-27,00.html

He told of an article about Jack McConnell who was a minister and each night around the dinner table he would ask his children "What did you do for someone today?"   Here is the link to the article his son wrote about the exeperience. http://www.newsweek.com/id/79103  

"The Savior taught His disciples, "For whosoever will save his life shall lose it: but whosoever will lose his life for my sake, the same shall save it."  Unless we lose ourselves in service to others, there is little purpose to our own lives."

David O. McKay said:  "Man's greatest happiness comes from losing himself for the good of others."

Thomas S. Monson continued by saying: "We are the Lord's hands here upon the earth, with the mandate to serve and to lift His children.  He is dependent upon each of us."

I have looked at some websites about "Random Acts of Kindness" and there are many ideas of ways we can be of service, but all of them require one thing from us;   that we look around and watch for a need.  Be ready to be kind.  There are so many who ache for a kind touch, a kind look, a kind word, a kind act.

I believe that there is a better world than this to live in.  We don't have to go anywhere to find it.  We have to create it with one kindness at a time!

                           Sooooo, "What did I do for someone today?"


                                                       Have a wonderful day!!
                                                             Melissa Walker

Sunday, November 15, 2009

Books Books Books

Be as careful of the books you read, as of the company you keep,
for your habits and character will be as much
influenced by the former as the latter.
~ Paxton Hood~




There are few things in life that give me as much pleasure as being in the middle of a very good book!  I LOVE good books!  I could spend an entire day in a book store--and one time, I actually did!!  It was wonderful! I always try to have a book with me when I go to work so that I have a place to escape to during my break.  I love it.  I can be reading a book and totally forget where I am.  I even stop hearing things around me.  It is like being in a tunnel that carries you away to another place and then suddenly drops you back off where you were when someone touches you, or says your name really loud (because they've been saying it four times).  I like books that inspire me to be better, or tell a story about someone who was incredible.  Not necessarily incredible to the world, but incredible in their own life, without even realizing it.  Books become my friends.  I have a hard time going to the library, because I don't want to give a good book back.  I like to put in on a shelf at home, where even if I never read it again, just seeing the title brings back such wonderful memories of a good read, and reminds me of things I wanted to change about myself because of what I learned in those pages. My first memories of reading are of my daddy rocking me in the old rocking chair and reading stories to me before I went to bed in our Scottsdale home.  What sweet memories!  He has enjoyed reading to my children, and to their children too!  A beautiful tradition being passed down to three generations.   I try to always get my grandchildren a wonderful children's book for their birthday and Christmas.  It has to have great illustrations too!  Even when Jeff and I were very young parents with barely enough money to pay the bills, I would sacrifice whatever I had to to get the kids books to read.  I rarely would buy new books, but I found great books at yard sales.  We also went to the library every week!  We filled our home with books and we loved reading! Now, my children all love to read.  I cannot think of very many things that I would like them to enjoy more.  **key word being "things".  I cannot imagine a world without books.  If I could have one wish concerning books, I would wish for a room completely lined with wall to wall, floor to ceiling bookshelves.  With a cozy chair and a standing lamp in one corner and a round table in the middle for studying.  I think if I had such a room, I may never ever leave it!!

Books I have recently read that I just love:

1.  Common Sense by Glen Beck
          A great book!  I liked the straight forward factual information even though it is very disturbing.  I liked
          at the end of his portion of the book, he gives an idea of what the reader, as an individual can do.
          When I finished reading, I felt empowered and driven to DO SOMETHING. 
          I will prepare for elections very differently in the future!  I will know all I can about each individual I vote for.  This country has lost too many of it's values to allow us the luxury of trusting politicians on any merit except for their record.

2.  The Christmas List by Richard Paul Evans
            This is a book that surprised me.  I thought it was going to take one route and it took the opposite.  I
            liked the fact that it didn't show the man being forgiven by everyone he went back to make amends
            to.  In that sense it was very telling of how life really is.  Sometimes it is too late!  Sometimes we can't
            undo the damage we have done to another person!  I think that that is part of the eternal punishment
            we face. . . . . the  not being able to change something we did wrong. 
This book made me ponder the things I have said and done that I shouldn't have.
Probably more to family than others. 
Why is it that we sometimes treat the ones we love with the least kindness.  Why do we save our "sweet" voice for strangers or aquantances when we talk on the phone?  Why do we do service more willingly and without thought, for people we don't live with? 
Maybe I should make a Christmas list and put my husband at the top!

3.  Have a little faith by Mitch Albom
            Still reading this one and it has captured my heart!  I will go back a second time and highlight some of
the very insightful things said by the Rabbi.  All of us have had people in our lives who we revered.  They may have been a teacher, a rabbi, a preacher, a bishop, a priest, a family friend. . . . it could be anyone. 
I believe there are people we cross paths with in our life, who are meant to remind us of who we
really are, and help us discover who we want to be.  I have had those people in my life.  They give me a glimpse of Christ in our modern world.  They are a blessing.  They are steady.  They are rooted.  And the most interesting thing is that they don't even know they have changed peoples lives!

Just the knowledge that a good book is awaiting one
at the end of a long day makes the day happier.
~ Kathleen Norris ~


I don't know if anyone out there is reading this, but if you are, will you share a few of your favorite reads?
Thanks!

Saturday, November 14, 2009

Little Man

Most days everything moves along as it always has. 
I try to live a grateful life.
My life is good.
I enjoy letting my Heavenly Father know, each day,
that I recognize His hand in my world.
I am so blessed.
And then,
Just when I think I have been given so much more than I deserve. . . .

A child is born!

Introducing. . . .


WALKER REED HIGBEE       
Born October 24th, 2009
8lb 4 oz
20 inches long
Great set of lungs!
                            
2 1/2 weeks early (It's a Higbee tradition )




He has wrapped his Spirit around his mommies heart.                
He has burst the pride from his daddies buttons.









He has released the wonder in his big sisters eyes.

He has brought to the realization of his mimi and papa,
that love multiplies over and over again.


And I have come to see that once again I am blessed so much more than I deserve!
May you look into the eyes of a child
and catch a glimpse of something you once were -
and may you see a bit of yourself still!


For more beautiful pics of Walker, and a sometimes humorous view of life with 3 little ones, visit Jessica's blog (which is a work of art) http://mhig36.blogspot.com/